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How to Be the Irresistible Gentleman: Nine Surefire Ways The Planets will elevate your game and cut your Dog Tail of repeating misfortune 
Back to school with the 9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way.
GENTLEMAN=9
THE GENTLEMAN=12
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The word "Gentleman" is more than just a label; it is a way of being—marked by grace, respect, and an unyielding commitment to traditional values.
What is the most important part of being a Gentleman as Per Guruji Shrii Arnav 
Chivalry, the ability to be courteous and protective while maintaining integrity, is at the core of a gentleman’s character.
In the Guruji Shrii Arnav 9 by 12 way, being a gentleman is not just about actions but also about embodying the energy of the nine celestial planets. 
Each planet, with its unique attributes, blesses a person with the virtues necessary to be an irresistible gentleman.
Let’s decode the word GENTLEMAN and see how the nine planetary forces contribute to these qualities.
- **G – Grace (Venus) ** 
Grace, the ability to carry oneself with poise and elegance, is bestowed by Venus, the planet of beauty and harmony. A gentleman under Venus’s influence naturally exudes charm, making his presence comforting and magnetic.
- **E – Empathy (Moon) ** 
Empathy, the power to feel and understand others’ emotions, is the gift of the Moon, which governs the mind and emotions. A gentleman listens with his heart and shows deep consideration for others, fostering trust and compassion.
- **N – Nobility (Sun) ** 
Nobility is the virtue of standing tall with dignity and leadership, illuminated by the Sun. A gentleman shines like the Sun, inspiring those around him with his warmth, generosity, and unshakable principles.
- **T – Tact (Mercury) ** 
Tact, or the art of saying the right thing at the right time, is governed by Mercury, the planet of communication. A gentleman possesses the wit and wisdom to navigate any situation gracefully, avoiding conflict and building meaningful relationships.
- **L – Loyalty (Jupiter) ** 
Loyalty is the cornerstone of trust, given by Jupiter, the planet of wisdom and devotion. A gentleman remains steadfast in his commitments and is a source of unwavering support for his loved ones.
- **E – Endurance (Saturn) ** 
Endurance is the ability to persevere through challenges, gifted by Saturn, the planet of discipline and patience. A gentleman’s strength lies in his resilience, showing calm determination in the face of adversity.
- **M – Modesty (Ketu) ** 
Modesty, the ability to stay grounded and humble, comes from Ketu, the planet of detachment. A true gentleman knows his worth but chooses to remain unassuming, letting his actions speak louder than words.
- **A – Ambition (Mars) ** 
Ambition, fueled by Mars, drives a gentleman to excel in his endeavors. This planet’s fiery energy inspires courage, determination, and the drive to protect and provide for others.
- **N – Nurturing (Rahu) ** 
Nurturing is the ability to create and foster growth, a quality influenced by Rahu, the planet of transformation. A gentleman uses his resources and energy to support others, empowering them to thrive.
Gentlemanly Thoughts
A gentleman is a rare blend of virtues, harmonized by the cosmic energies of the nine planets.
Each planet contributes its unique qualities, creating a personality that is both irresistible and inspirational.
By aligning your actions with these virtues and understanding the planetary influences, you not only become a refined individual but also inspire others to strive for the same.
To master the art of being a gentleman is to honor the celestial energies within you. By embodying grace, empathy, nobility, tact, loyalty, endurance, modesty, ambition, and nurturing, you become a force of positivity and elegance in the world.
Are you ready to embrace your inner Gentleman and let the cosmos guide you?
Let us explore an interesting recent development:
The Case of the Forgotten Wallet: A Modern Tale of Gentlemanly Virtues
The Setting and the scene
At bustling café in the heart of Bangalore, where young professionals gather for their morning coffee and breakfast. Among them is Arjun, a 29-year-old software engineer known for his quiet demeanor and polite nature.
Arjun always believed that being a gentleman wasn’t about grand gestures but the small, meaningful actions that could make someone’s day better.
This belief was put to the test one morning when life presented him with an unexpected situation.
**The Incident:**
It was 8:30 AM, and Arjun was waiting for his latte. The café was unusually crowded, and tempers flared as people jostled for space.
Just then, a young woman at the counter realized she had forgotten her wallet. Her face turned crimson as she stammered an apology to the barista.
The crowd behind her grew impatient. Someone muttered, “How can people be so careless?” while another customer outright snapped, “Can you hurry up, please?”
The young woman, clearly embarrassed, fumbled with her phone, trying to find a payment app that wasn’t working due to a network glitch.
It was a tough moment—a modern scenario that demanded tact, patience, and kindness.
The Gentleman’s Action
Observing the scene, Arjun quietly stepped forward. Without making a show of it, he handed his card to the barista and said, “Add her order to my bill.”
The woman looked up, startled, and stammered, “Oh no, I couldn’t—”
Arjun smiled reassuringly. “It’s okay. We all have those days. Consider it a small gesture. You can pay it forward whenever you get the chance.”
The Aftermath:
The crowd’s irritation dissolved instantly. The woman, relieved, introduced herself as Priya, a junior architect who had just moved to the city. She thanked Arjun profusely and promised to return the favor.
As they sat down at adjoining tables, Priya couldn’t help but ask, “Why would you do that? You don’t even know me.”
Arjun chuckled. “I believe kindness is never wasted. Being a gentleman isn’t about chivalry in the traditional sense—it’s about being empathetic and helpful.
My grandfather used to say, ‘Character is how you treat those who can’t do anything for you.’”
Priya smiled, clearly moved. “I’ll remember that. Thank you.”
The Gentlemanly Qualities in Action:
- **Grace:** Arjun handled the situation with calmness and poise, diffusing the tension in the café. (Venus)
- **Empathy:** He understood Priya’s embarrassment and stepped in without making her feel lesser. (Moon)
- **Tact:** Arjun intervened subtly, avoiding further discomfort for Priya. (Mercury)
- **Loyalty:** He upheld his values of helping others, staying true to his principles. (Jupiter)
- **Endurance:** Arjun ignored the impatience of the crowd and focused on doing what was right. (Saturn)
- **Modesty:** He didn’t make a big deal out of his action, letting his kindness speak for itself. (Ketu)
- **Ambition:** While his goal wasn’t material, his ambition to make the world kinder shone through. (Mars)
- **Nurturing:** By helping Priya, he created a moment of comfort and goodwill in a stressful situation. (Rahu)
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The Background
Arjun is the Son of a very senior bureaucrat, and I had a chance meeting with him two years back at the India habitat Centre, where he was accompanying his father.
His father a true gentleman upon seeing me enter the India habitat Centre stood up, touched my feet and then shook my hands much to the surprise of Arjun, who I was meeting for the first time.
After a nice coffee with his dad. Arjun smiled. Sheepishly- and said Guruji, when will I get married married. Is there even a chance for that to which I replied?
Yes, my son if you are a gentleman, you will get married exactly in two years after paying your Karmik debt by paying for a lost wallet and a free coffee, and you will get a nice wife as a bonus.
And as I walked out, he looked flummoxed with his father saying that is Guruji for you.
That is the temporary end to the story as Arjun tied the knot with Priya two days back and he recounted this tale at the Army Canonment mess where his reception was held much to the delight of all, specially his father.
The conclusion:
This story reflects how gentlemanly qualities can be applied to modern life, even in the simplest of situations.
Arjun’s actions were not driven by the need for recognition but by the innate understanding of what it means to be human.
Through small, intentional acts of kindness, anyone can embody the virtues of a gentleman. As Arjun said, “Character is how you treat those who can’t do anything for you”—a timeless principle that resonates across generations.
Instant Wisdom from Guruji
“In a world full of instant coffee and instant opinions, be like Arjun—brewed to perfection, with just the right blend of grace and grit!”
BE THE RIGHT KIND OF ARJUN BTW
To ground the concepts in timeless wisdom, let us reflect on the sacred words from the Manusmriti (2.121):
“सत्यं ब्रूयात् प्रियं ब्रूयात् न ब्रूयात् सत्यमप्रियम्। प्रियं च नानृतं ब्रूयात् एष धर्मः सनातनः।।”
(Satyam Bruyat Priyam Bruyat Na Bruyat Satyam Apriyam, Priyam Cha Nanritam Bruyat Esha Dharmah Sanatanah.)
Translation:
“Speak the truth, but let it be pleasant. Do not speak the unpleasant truth, nor should you speak pleasant untruths. This is the eternal dharma.”
Arjun embodied this eternal dharma by blending truth, tact, and kindness in a modern context. Let his story remind us all that being a gentleman is not just an ideal—it’s a practice rooted in timeless virtues that uplift everyone around us.
#GentlemanSpirit #CosmicVirtues
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Why? I am accountable to my students, clients and stakeholders who trust me. I wouldn’t want anything but the best for them and for that
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