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The 9 Secrets Wives Never Tell their Husbands- Date Night- Cock Fight- 
Love Right.
Now This one first for the ladies:
For the Genteel Folk of Mankind= Women- The cream and the solution- If you have some secrets that are stifling you and you need to release and share… All you need to do:
Find another Female confidant and share them with some reasonable modification and then let chinese whispers 
do the trick
Result: Happy You.. Happy Her
And now - You do NOT have to read any further.
Chinese Whispers 
Now a Few Things before we head deep down into these complex matters of the Genteel Folk.
I know only about 2 kinds of dates. The first one is numerical representation of the day in the calendar and the other one is sweet fruit that grows on trees=Khajur. Day before yesterday somebody told me about Date Night =9 and it did spark some kind of curiousity in me- I must say. I intend to go through this experience- most probably on a satsang day. BTW- DATE NIGHT =9
Search Guruji Shrii Arnav and the power of 9 and this is what initiated the spark that is making me write this.
I have no idea what the terms Girlfriend or Boyfriend means. Just like sustainable/ sustainability these go to the list of words that Guruji does not understand or has no idea about.
The Other evening a little bunny wanted to know some tips on Flirting and wanted some tips on how to flirt- This is also in the list of stuff that Guruji does not understand- Never did- never had the need and if he did … ( Fill in the Blanks Yourself )
Pursuing: YES , Possessing : Yes But flirting: NO
Now,
I have already written about:
The 9 Must Ask Questions before Marriage and that can be found at this link:
So,
If You are already married and have these secrets then this is for you.
So Also,
If you are NOT married and still have these secrets then replace
Wife with Girlfriend
Husband with Boyfriend
Wait- What did I just say
Tiger
Replace in the title and then this post becomes relevant to you.
Better still..
Wait Let me reproduce the title yet again:
The 9 Secrets Wives Never Tell their Husbands- Date Night- Cock Fight- Love Right.
So,
The Legend Level is just replace all classifications of GF/ BF/ Hubby/ Better Half/ Wife with the word
LOVER
And that’s just about the end of it.
Is also the key to life should you want to escape toxicity, counselling, Therapy etc etc.
PS: You must read this. All this material is coming from my present life of 30 years of consulting.
So the anecdotal evidence that I cite below actually Happened but For sake of readability and ease- I have narrated it in the first person- Also to protect someone’s privacy and sensitivity etc etc. But Legends should Also apply the Guruji Shrii Arnav- ULTA PULTA FORMULA for Best Results.
These are sensitive matters having life changing ramifications and sometime we may have to modify tone and the tenor for the big uncomfortable points to hit home.
Now,
Back to school with Guruji Shrii Arnav:
DATE NIGHT
COCK FIGHT
LOVE RIGHT
All above =9
Search Guruji Shrii Arnav and power of 9 and also 
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way.
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The 9 Secrets Wives Never Tell their Husbands- Date Night- Cock Fight- Love Right.
Marriage is like a deck of cards. In the beginning, all you need is two hearts and a diamond. By the end, you’re hoping for a club and a spade!
There goes 300 years of sustained marketing and many centuries of organised conditioning.
In any relationship, there are always things left unsaid, especially in a marriage, where the connection is as deep as the ocean and as wide as a Texan highway.
From responsibilities to parenting, finances, intimacy, and dreams, it's a wonder we manage to keep our heads above water at all.
Wives, like anyone else, often keep certain thoughts or feelings to themselves. These secrets may be small, but they offer a glimpse into the rich and sometimes challenging internal life of an individual.
Let’s dive into nine things women don’t usually tell their husbands.
These points may not apply to all women, but let’s see what we can uncover.
DATE NIGHT- THE 9 Secret Plight Of a Wife Bright
D - Doubts About Their Own Success
A - Attraction to Others
T - Their Body Insecurities
E - Experimentation Needs
N - Need for Personal Space
I - Intimacy (Want to be Romanced)
G - Growing Older (Concerns About Aging)
H - Household (Financial Worries)
T - Thoughts (Need for Emotional Support)
D - Doubts About Their Own Success
No matter how confident a wife is in her capabilities, there are times when doubts can set in.
When this happens, wives may hide their struggles from their husbands as they don’t want them to worry or think less of them.
They may tell their husbands that everything is going great even when they’re struggling to make progress in an area of their lives.
Anecdote
My wife once admitted she was having a tough time at work, but only after I noticed her growing more quiet and stressed. She was afraid I’d see her as less capable, but once she opened up, we were able to talk through her challenges together.
PS: Read My thoughts on first person narration above
Life Learning:
"Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will." - Suzy Kassem
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Regularly encourage your wife by acknowledging her achievements, both big and small. Set aside time each week to discuss each other's goals and support one another in overcoming any obstacles.
Good Genteel language that check marks All settings and situations- Can be discussed in the Oxford library to the nearby cafe or even the Gym.- Same formula applies to
all 9 points below.
2. Attraction to Others
Being married doesn't switch off the capacity to find others attractive. It's natural to feel a spark when you're around someone who has qualities you admire.
But this doesn't mean she's cheatingor lusting after them.
Some wives may hide the fact that they find someone else attractive because they don't want their husbands to misinterpret this natural reaction.
Anecdote
My wife once confessed she had a tiny crush on a celebrity chef. I laughed and admitted my own crush on a famous actress. We both agreed it was harmless fun.
Life Learning
"Just because you're married doesn't mean you're dead." - Joe Rogan
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Have an open and honest discussion about harmless attractions. Recognizing and talking about these feelings can actually strengthen trust and intimacy in your relationship.
3. Their Body Insecurities
Alright, gents, brace yourselves for a revelation: wives, like 99.9% of humans, have body insecurities. Shocking, right?
Picture this: endless streams of supermodels and actresses with "perfect" bodies parading on every screen, magazine cover, and billboard
It's like living in a parallel universe where everyone is Photoshopped or these days-AI- FIED- Better than Deified to perfection.
Naturally, wives compare themselves to these impossible standards and feel the pinch of those extra inches or the absence of a sculpted arm.
Hence, My Advice
Unfollow all those fitness gurus bar ONE
You don’t need that kind of pressure in life.
Wives worry about everything: weight, shape, size, you name it. Stretch marks, post-baby bellies, and those pre-pregnancy jeans that have morphed into a distant memory.
Most women don’t bring these insecurities up with their husbands because they fear they'll seem vain or trivial.
Or worse, they worry their husbands might not find them attractive anymore.
Anecdote
I once caught my wife trying on three different outfits for a dinner party. She kept asking me if she looked "okay."
I thought she looked stunning in every single one, but she insisted that the last one "hid her flaws" best. Flaws? What flaws?
Life Learning
"A woman's beauty is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul." - Audrey Hepburn
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Encourage your wife to embrace positive affirmations about her body. Every morning, look in the mirror together and say something positive about yourselves. This can help build self-esteem and reinforce a positive body image.
4. Experimentation Needs
Exploring new things is an exciting adventure for couples, but some wives may choose not to share all the details with their husbands.
They may feel their husband won’t understand or will be judgmental of certain behaviors she wants to experiment with.
For example, some wives may want to explore different aspects of their sexuality but fear how their husbands would respond if they found out, so they’d rather keep it private.
Anecdote
One day, my wife brought home a cookbook with some pretty adventurous recipes. I was hesitant, but she assured me it would be fun. Our kitchen looked like a disaster zone, but we ended up having a blast.
Life Learning
"Don't be afraid to experiment and step outside your comfort zone. The best experiences are often the unexpected ones." - Anonymous
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Create a "bucket list" together of things you both want to try. This can include travel, activities, or even new recipes. Working through the list can be a fun and bonding experience.
5. Need for Personal Space
Married couples are often expected to do everything together, but guess what? Wives need personal space too.
Personal space means pursuing interests independently without guilt or fear of judgment. This could be a weekend getaway with friends, a gym session, or a few hours of solitude.
I've been telling my husband that I need a solo weekend getaway. Actually, I need more than that. I need time to relax and clear my head without feeling like I'm neglecting my family.
Giving each other space is crucial for any marriage. It's a way to keep the spark alive and maintain a healthy balance between togetherness and individuality.
While your wife might be happily married to you, she still needs her own space and time to reconnect with herself. But she might keep this from you to avoid hurting your feelings or because she's afraid of how you'll react.
Anecdote
My wife once declared she needed a "mom-cation." She booked herself a weekend at a local spa, leaving me with the kids. It was chaos at home, but she came back rejuvenated and glowing.
Life Learning
"Sometimes you need to take a break from everyone and spend time alone to experience, appreciate, and love yourself." - Robert Tew
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Encourage your wife to take some time for herself regularly. Whether it's a few hours at a coffee shop with a book or a weekend getaway, personal space can recharge her batteries and benefit your relationship.
6. Want to be Romanced
Listen up, fellas: wives want romance. Not just any romance, but the kind that sweeps them off their feet—even if their feet are firmly planted in the routine of daily life.
Wives have romantic expectations, both in and out of the bedroom. These desires might seem trivial, but they can significantly impact how wives perceive their relationships and their overall happiness in marriage.
They're tired of feeling like glorified housekeepers and need a sprinkle of romance to remind them they're still special and cherished.
We don’t expect romance 24/7, but a little effort now and then wouldn't hurt. Every woman is different, so if you're curious about your wife's romantic expectations, just ask her. Many wives keep these desires to themselves because they worry they'll seem too "out there" or demanding.
Anecdote
My wife once hinted she wanted a romantic gesture like in the movies. So, I awkwardly re-enacted a scene from "The Notebook." It was cheesy, and we laughed the whole time, but it worked like a charm.
Life Learning
"Romance is the glamour which turns the dust of everyday life into a golden haze."- Elinor Glyn
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Plan a surprise date night. It doesn't have to be extravagant—sometimes, a simple, thoughtful gesture like cooking her favorite meal or a handwritten love note can make a big difference.
7. Concerns About Aging
Ah, the eternal quest for youth. If you've ever ventured into a grocery store, you know the shelves are brimming with anti-aging potions promising eternal youth. Wives, armed with their arsenal of serums—hyaluronic acid, vitamin C, retinol, you name it—battle the ravages of time daily.
Wives worry about aging. They fear becoming less attractive, losing their husband's interest
and failing to catch the eye of the opposite sex. Beauty companies make a fortune selling products that promise to rewind the clock, using ageless celebrities as their poster children.
Dear husbands, your wives are concerned about aging, but they probably won’t tell you. It's your job to reassure them that you'll always find them beautiful and attractive.
Anecdote
I once caught my wife scrutinizing her reflection, counting grey hairs. I told her she was like a fine wine, getting better with age. She laughed, but I meant it.
Life Learning
"You don’t stop laughing when you grow old, you grow old when you stop laughing." - George Bernard Shaw
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip
Create a weekly ritual where you both share something you appreciate about each other. This helps reinforce positive feelings and can make your wife feel valued and beautiful at any age.
8. Financial Worries
Picture this: you're lounging on the couch, mindlessly flipping through channels or scrolling through social media, when suddenly, financial paranoia strikes. "Are we saving enough for retirement?" "Can we afford that vacation?" "What if there's an emergency and we need cash ASAP?"
Sound familiar? It does to many wives too. Even if their husbands bring in the main paycheck or contribute equally, wives often mull over financial security in their minds. They quietly crunch numbers, plan budgets, and think up ways to cut expenses, all in their heads. These worries often stay just that—worries. Many wives don't talk about these financial concerns openly.
Anecdote
My wife once showed me a spreadsheet she’d been updating for months, detailing every expense down to the last penny. I was stunned; I had no idea she was so worried about our finances.
Life Learning
"Too many people spend money they haven't earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like." - Will Rogers
9:12- The Guruji Shrii Arnav’s way-Tip;
Schedule regular financial check-ins with your wife. Go over your budget, savings, and financial goals together. Open communication can alleviate worries and ensure you’re both on the same page financially.
9. Thoughts- I am not going there.
Now- 3 Things
Men: Some of you fellas may not like this at all. But- Trust me- This template might actually simplify your life- Thank Me Later.
Women- No comments at all- My Dear Lovelies.
Date Night- Hmm Intriguing Enough to Give It A Go.. D
So these are common secrets women don’t share with their husbands.
As a woman, you should be more open and vulnerable to sharing your thoughts and feelings with your husband.
He might not understand exactly what you’re going through, but he can still be a powerful ally and source of comfort.
And remember,
Marriage is like a workshop where the husband works and the wife shops.
The easiest way out- though it might be cliched.
Remember You are NO Don Juan De Marco but she does have her CLEO- Patra Moments- Isn’t It.
Keep communicating ( absolute Must) and you'll both find ways to make it through the chaos with love and laughter.
Happy Wife Day- And if it does not exist- Today It is- Henceforth and
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